We don't know why we are placed in circumstances that seems unbearable at times and why if he (GOD) sees us ,not help. Looking back at the things that i have been through, phisically,spiritually,mentall y and yes, financially.I come to realize that through all that struggle and hardship, I have become stronger,more sensative to my wife as well as my three other kid's needs,feelings and desires. I have become real close to them that even friends and family have commented on how great a husband and father i have become. I have lost 85 lbs from being 350 lbs. Really come to cherish my devotional time with my lord and savior Jesus Christ. What I am trying to say,without trying to be too religious, is that through our greatest trials or sufferings comes even greater annointings or Blessings. Instead of focusing on the negatives turn to the positives. ex. your Angel and husband,time with them will be cherished.Look for the good, that as a result of these trials, It has made you stronger(persaverance) etc. A mentor of mine once told me," champ, put your faith in HIM(CHRIST JESUS) and he will prove himself faithful." He has never failed me. The thing is: You must repent,ask forgiveness( Because all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of GOD.) Ask him to come into your life and be the lord and savior. " Therefore if the son had made you free, than you are free indeed." Thank you for your time. Lord,show yourself to this sister,to be a GOD that does care and is faithful. Lord give her revelation knowledge of who you truly are. Lord complete your work in her so that she too can be a testimony of you love and faithfulness. father renew her spirit and give her peace,your peace that surpasses all understanding. We thank you lord that even before she was born ,you knew her and that you have plans for her.Plans to prosper her and not to harm her.Plan for her success and not her failure, all for your great purpose. BLESS her and her family,Lord.In JESUS name,AMEN. Sister go in PEACE. DIN